Showing posts with label No-No's. Show all posts
Showing posts with label No-No's. Show all posts
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
Unforgivables
Be warned. There are some words as phrases that you can call your lady love, even in the heat of an arguement, that are unforgivable, regardless of the reason behind saying it. The "b" word is a big one, followed by whore, c**t,.. well, you get the idea.
Sunday, October 24, 2010
I Love You, but I'm Not in Love with You
If there is a list somewhere of the ultimate cop-offs, this should top the list. All this statement does is get you out the relationship without an explanation. If you have dated this girl for an extended amount of time, you owe her some type of explanation. She will agonize over the situation, questioning everything she did to try to figure out what she did wrong regardless of if it was her fault or not.
Girls tend to have selective hearing and will latch on to what she wants to hear. If she has any feelings at all for you, she will only hear the “I love you” part and think that the door is still cracked for reconciliation.
Girls tend to have selective hearing and will latch on to what she wants to hear. If she has any feelings at all for you, she will only hear the “I love you” part and think that the door is still cracked for reconciliation.
Learning New Things
If you are trying to teach your significant other a new thing, be patient.
Remember it takes people different amounts of time to learn new things.
Do NOT ever say that an ex or a girl that is a friend that your significant other does not like “got it right away”.
Girls feel like they have to be superior than previous girlfriends and this statement certainly will not do that. It could result in her walking away from said thing and blaming you. (“You just aren’t patient enough to teach me.”) This makes it seem like it was her idea to stop learning said thing, as she still feels superior. It is better to walk away than fail (in her eyes).
NEVER and I mean NEVER EVER suggest to her that you will go get said individual to teach her. Not only is that extremely insensitive to her feelings, but it destroys her self-confidence and it puts her on said person’s level, so therefore she is no longer superior. If you have a mutual friend that can teach her, ask that person. It is easier for her to fail with a friend than with you.
She does not want you to know that she has failed or is not capable of learning the new thing.
Remember it takes people different amounts of time to learn new things.
Do NOT ever say that an ex or a girl that is a friend that your significant other does not like “got it right away”.
Girls feel like they have to be superior than previous girlfriends and this statement certainly will not do that. It could result in her walking away from said thing and blaming you. (“You just aren’t patient enough to teach me.”) This makes it seem like it was her idea to stop learning said thing, as she still feels superior. It is better to walk away than fail (in her eyes).
NEVER and I mean NEVER EVER suggest to her that you will go get said individual to teach her. Not only is that extremely insensitive to her feelings, but it destroys her self-confidence and it puts her on said person’s level, so therefore she is no longer superior. If you have a mutual friend that can teach her, ask that person. It is easier for her to fail with a friend than with you.
She does not want you to know that she has failed or is not capable of learning the new thing.
Buying the Cow
This phrase should never leave your mouth if there is a girl within 100 yards of you and if you ever want to get laid again this century do NOT say it to your girlfriend, wife, date, etc.
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Waiting
Girls do not like to wait.
They also do not like to be rushed. I realize this is a double standard, but you might as well get used to it now.
If she says be there at (insert time here), then be 5 minutes early. If she isn’t ready, deal with it.
Remember, she is trying to look her best FOR YOU. Rushing here will only result in the “Fine! I just won’t go” fight.
Invest in a game for your cell phone. You will need it.
They also do not like to be rushed. I realize this is a double standard, but you might as well get used to it now.
If she says be there at (insert time here), then be 5 minutes early. If she isn’t ready, deal with it.
Remember, she is trying to look her best FOR YOU. Rushing here will only result in the “Fine! I just won’t go” fight.
Invest in a game for your cell phone. You will need it.
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